Small and thoughtful? Or a grand and sparkling gesture? This year, take all the guesswork out of Valentine’s Day gifting with these relationship-appropriate suggestions.

For the It’s-About-to-Get-Serious Relationship
On February 14, chocolates and flowers alone just won’t cut it. Show her you really care with classic pearl studs.

For the Committed Couple
Give her the full treatment: pair one black negligee with chocolate-covered strawberries, candles, and champagne. Best-significant-other award? All yours.

For the Newlyweds
She’s been dropping hints. Now, make all her Valentine’s Day wishes come true with the designer handbag of her dreams.

For the Married-with-Kids Pair
After all the years you’ve spent together, it’s time to really wow her. Knock her off her feet (all over again) with as-luxe-as-it-gets 14k Italian gold.

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By Emily Ketterer, Staff Writer

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